A common accusation against polygyny is that there are no positive references is Scripture, but is that really true? Or, is it a radically false claim and an affront to the Living Elohim?
In a discussion group that I participate in, the question was asked, ‘how best to respond to the statement that “nothing good ever came from that”?’ And, I’ve heard that same assertion from multiple sources, some well versed in Scripture. I watched the discussion with some interest and several real gems popped out that I either had not seen, or found ways to phrase much more concisely! Consider the following cases:
11 All the people who were in the court (gate), and the elders, said, “We are witnesses. May the Lord make the woman who is coming into your home like Rachel and Leah, both of whom built the house of Israel; and may you achieve wealth (power) in Ephrathah and become famous (name be great) in Bethlehem.Ruth 4
Certainly, I have long believed that Ruth was taken on as an additional wife to an already successful man and his family, but this is immaterial to the point of this verse!
The great value in this verse is that the elders and wise men who sat in the city gates regarded Leah and Rachel as a blessed model for building the (whole) house of Israel. One could also read ‘achieving power’ and ‘becom(ing) famous’ as being associated as well with the polygyny of Jacob as that is what Leah and Rachel brought to Jacob! More in a minute!
The lineage of Yeshua is the second most, if not the most, glaring refutation of ‘nothing good ever came from polygyny.’ Besides being the ‘Son of David’ by Bathsheba, his seventh wife, Yeshua also has in his lineage Abraham and Jacob, known polygynists as well as Judah, Salmon, and Boaz, all probable polygynists. I’m certain that other clues elsewhere in the text indicate others in the lineage were polygynous as this was quite common in Israel, but there is enough evidence from the known polygynists to singlehandedly destroy the ‘nothing good ever came’ slander.
1 The record of the genealogy of Yeshua the Messiah, the son of David, the son of Abraham:
2 Abraham was the father of Isaac, Isaac the father of Jacob, and Jacob the father of Judah and his brothers.Matthew 1
To read these verses and then say, ‘nothing good ever came from polygyny’ is to be profoundly ignorant and obtuse or willfully deceitful.
What drives me the most to defend polygyny is a clear understanding that Scripture defines and endorses the practice within certain boundaries. As you’ll see in the following golden quote (pictured at end) by Steve Bearsley, denying or speaking against the practice or any who walk in it is to speak against the God of Israel!!
God doesn’t speak any differently about the outcome from the union of a man with one wife over another of his wives. Multiple times throughout the Bible God identifies Himself as the “God of Israel” or the “Lord God of Israel” and Israel is the nation descended from Jacob and his four wives. Passages such as Psalm 72:18 make this distinction most specific: Blessed be the Lord God, the God of Israel, Who only does wondrous things!
Because the world has been so thoroughly duped and blinded as to who God is, they miss the blessedness of God speaking of Himself as the God of a polygamous family.
So in answer to your church leader’s challenge @Member, I’d say God speaks of Himself in a most positive manner when He refers to Himself as the God of Israel; a nation descended from Jacob’s family. And woe to anyone who speaks against the God of Israel. ShalomDiscussion Group
This is very serious indeed! To speak against Jacob is to speak against the God of Israel! To speak against polygyny is to speak against the God of Jacob who endorses and actually created the circumstances of Jacob’s four wives. To call polygyny a sin is to place oneself in judgment of our father Jacob/Israel and by extension, in judgment of God.
While there are more proofs in Scripture of positive benefit in and to polygynous families, these three not only definitively crush the fallacious claim that ‘nothing good ever came from polygyny,’ but they demolish any attempt to promote some ‘creation ideal’ or Greco-Roman standard of monogamy-only as ‘God’s will.’
Simply, teaching or speaking against polygyny as a viable and righteous option in Biblically defined families is to speak against the God of Israel and His plan and people. Period.